Here are some embarrassing questions that first time spa clients always want to know but might be too shy to ask:
1) When I get a massage, should I take off my underwear?
There is no fixed rule. You should do what is comfortable for yourself. Some people prefer to keep their panties or briefs on while others prefer to be completely nude. Usually, if you are wearing thongs or briefs (for men), there should be no hindrance to your massage experience.
2) What should I do if I drool during the massage?
It is not uncommon for people to fall asleep during a relaxing massage. If there is drool on the pillow or the massage table, it is very common. Do not feel shy about asking for a tissue or a small towel.
3) Will I have to undress in the presence of the massage therapist?
You will be given privacy to undress. Before the massage therapist walks in, he or she will usually knock discreetly, hence, you do not need to rush or be anxious. Just tell them if you are not yet ready. Once you are ready, slip under the top sheet on the massage table.
4) Do I need to talk to the massage therapist during the massage?
There is no need for you to carry out a conversation during the massage if you do not feel like it. You are there for a massage treatment and not for a social occasion. If you feel the room is too cold, or there is pain, or you have questions; feel free to speak up.
5) What do I do if I get an erection during the massage?
Many men avoid getting a massage because they are worried that they will be embarrassed when they get an erection. Arousal is perfectly normal even in non-sexual, therapeutic massage. This is because the soothing sensations administered to any area of the body can potentially activate the parasympathetic nervous system and cause an erection. Your massage therapist (male or female) is well aware of this and will generally ignore it. Wearing a bikini brief could be one way to help provide more support if you are still concerned.
6) I feel the pressure is too light, but I don't want to insult the massage therapist. What should I do?
Remember that it is not true that massage therapy needs to "hurt" in order to be effective. Too much pressure can sometimes cause muscle seizure. You should speak freely with your massage therapist as different people have different tolerance for pain and your muscle make up is different.
7) I am embarrassed about certain part of my body and don't want the massage therapist to see me. What can I do?
Some people are embarrassed about certain parts of their body for different reasons. It could be that you are overweight, have excessive body hair, or have a mole or acne growth. Most importantly, your therapist understands and will be professional about it. But if you are still embarrassed, opt for Shitsu or Thai Massage, both of which can be done with your clothes on.
